As Long As I’m Not Hurting Anyone…

Meet Noel Biderman.


Father of two.

Founder and CEO.

His name doesn’t ring a bell?

Well, you might have heard more about his “brainchild” of a company,

Never heard of The Ashley Madison Agency?

Well…take a look see…

Here’s additional info about the company…in their own words:

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Where do I begin with this?

First off, let me focus on Biderman himself.

Here’s a guy – a married, father of two – who claims that he didn’t invent infidelity…he’s just providing a more “honest,” “upfront” service for individuals who want to engage in it.

Biderman was on The View today – gotta hand it to him for having such balls to go on that show, on that panel, with that audience – and claimed, “…monogamy is difficult for a lot of people because it’s not in your DNA. That’s just a fact. We’re all human…when we put monogamy as the central tenet of a marriage, that might be really unhealthy. Marriage is so much more about than sex.”

Ok. Did anyone else catch that? He said, “…marriage is so much more about than sex.”

That’s funny. He created a web site based solely on the purpose of strangers HAVING SEX!

Biderman’s theory? The U.S. should de-emphasize monogamy and sex, like other countries such as Italy, Japan and France do, all of which have higher infidelity rates, but fewer divorce rates. He claims that infidelity will strengthen American families.

3.86 million.

That’s how many members are signed up with the Ashley Madison Agency.

3.86 million.

This could only happen in America.

A land whose moral code is: “As long as I’m not hurting anyone…I should be free to do whatever I want.”

If I had the opportunity to speak with Biderman, I wouldn’t waste my time or his time with a lot of unnecessary debates.

I would just read the following to him:

1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom,
listen well to my words of insight,

2 that you may maintain discretion
and your lips may preserve knowledge.

3 For the lips of an adulteress drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;

4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.

5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave. [a]

6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
her paths are crooked, but she knows it not.

7 Now then, my sons, listen to me;
do not turn aside from what I say.

8 Keep to a path far from her,
do not go near the door of her house,

9 lest you give your best strength to others
and your years to one who is cruel,

10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
and your toil enrich another man’s house.

11 At the end of your life you will groan,
when your flesh and body are spent.

12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
How my heart spurned correction!

13 I would not obey my teachers
or listen to my instructors.

14 I have come to the brink of utter ruin
in the midst of the whole assembly.”

15 Drink water from your own cistern,
running water from your own well.

16 Should your springs overflow in the streets,
your streams of water in the public squares?

17 Let them be yours alone,
never to be shared with strangers.

18 May your fountain be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.

19 A loving doe, a graceful deer—
may her breasts satisfy you always,
may you ever be captivated by her love.

20 Why be captivated, my son, by an adulteress?
Why embrace the bosom of another man’s wife?

21 For a man’s ways are in full view of the LORD,
and he examines all his paths.

22 The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him;
the cords of his sin hold him fast.

23 He will die for lack of discipline,
led astray by his own great folly.


~ by Maureen on May 1, 2009.

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